What is sexy? What is it that truly attracts us to another? Most of us worry about a small buldge here and there and a few greys peeking through our manes...but is it really the 'perfection' that pulls us in? Sometimes I wonder...
While I'm in complete agreement with you... the boys would say otherwise...and unfortunately us girls want to look our best in order to attract our "prince charming"..and funny enough, he could be fatter than u and i and still he's a "prince"
All you women really need is that sureness of being secure. A big strong, literally or not, man is what you seem to desire. Someone that demands respect.